Blame other people…
Blame my circumstances….
Blame my “bad luck”
Blame the person who is driving slowly in front of me when I am late
Blame the car park that was too tight because I am such a bad driver to park the car…
Ya know how it goes right?
You have a habit to blame and you blame everything…
It is easy…
It makes you feel you are right….
And the world is wrong…
But when I made a decision to take full responsibility of my life…
I had to undo the “blaming” habit…
And in every situation I started asking myself questions like:
“What can I learn here?”
“Is this happening with me because I need to see something that I couldn’t see?”
Taking responsibility is a little more challenging…
It requires practice….
It requires discipline and persistence…
These are the main lessons I learned when I start taking full responsibility of my life
Taking responsibility empowers you even when it hurts…
Blaming leaves your powerless…
When you take responsibility, you can change anything in your life because you are in control…
Blaming makes you feel you can’t change anything…
Taking responsibility is a practice that gives you energy…
Blaming is a practice that drains your energy…
Taking responsibility of where you are at and who you are is an important step towards changing your life but again it is a practice and habit.
“Accept responsibility for your life. Know that it is you who will get where you want to go. No one else” Les Brown