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“Be the change that you wish to see in the world”

๐™’๐™๐™š๐™ฃ ๐™„ ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ง๐™ฉ๐™š๐™™ ๐™›๐™ค๐™˜๐™ช๐™จ ๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™ข๐™ฎ๐™จ๐™š๐™ก๐™›, ๐™ข๐™ฎ ๐™ง๐™š๐™ก๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™๐™ž๐™ฅ ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ ๐™ข๐™ฎ ๐™๐™ช๐™จ๐™—๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™œ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™ข๐™ช๐™˜๐™ ๐™—๐™š๐™ฉ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง…

๐™’๐™๐™š๐™ฃ ๐™๐™š ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ง๐™ฉ๐™š๐™™ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™›๐™ค๐™˜๐™ช๐™จ ๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™๐™ž๐™ข, ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™ง๐™š๐™ก๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™๐™ž๐™ฅ ๐™œ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™—๐™š๐™ฉ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง….

Nick and I have been together for 18 years…

He is my jackpot…โค

My lottery ticket…๐Ÿ˜

The best thing that has ever happened in my life…

We met in a hostel in Budapest and our story is romantic…

It was love at first sight…

But we had our moments….

If you add 2 small children in the mix, you know what I am talking about…

It leaves you without much to give to each other….

Especially because we always lived away from family…

After my cancer diagnosis, Nick had to look after me, the kids, his business and everything…

But at the end of it all, it was hard on him after 7.5 months of having to be everything to everyone…

But truth is I didn’t have much to give back to him as my treatment had just finished….๐Ÿ˜ฟ

And I was just about to keep my head above the water…

So I kept focusing on my healing…

And he started to focus on himself…

The more we focused on ourselves separately, the stronger we got together…

I found that the ripple effect of focusing on myself was huge in all areas of my life…

I believe that you need to become the change you want to see in people and in the world.

As Mahatma Ghandi would say:

“Be the change that you wish to see in the world” โ€“ Mahatma Ghandi.

You need to love yourself first before you allow yourself to be loved…

As Nick and I learned how to love ourselves for real, we became more fulfilled within ourselves and consequently happier together…

I became super passionate about helping people to heal themselves because I see the power in each and everyone of us when we are committed to changing…

And healing ourselves…

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What are you doing about your healing?

I hate depending on peopleโ€ฆ

I left my country when I was 21 years old with a deep desire to prove โ€œgirlsโ€ didnโ€™t have to get married and have kids if they didnโ€™t want toโ€ฆ

Yes I did get married and have children but I got to do what I wanted before hand ๐Ÿ”ฅI was the first in a large extended family that chose a โ€œnot so normal pathโ€

Instead of staying in my parents house until I got married, I went to the other side of the world without a planโ€ฆ

After living in 5 different countries, I have always carved my own pathโ€ฆ

With nobody to bail meโ€ฆ

And settling for what it was easy and comfortable is just not meโ€ฆ

In my healing journey, this desire not to depend on anything served me wellโ€ฆ

As I found myself depending on doctors and medications, once more I came back to myselfโ€ฆ

What could I do to change my situation?

What could I do each day to help my body and mind?

I took my power back completelyโ€ฆ

I vouched myself I wasnโ€™t going to depend on anythingโ€ฆ

My healing journey consisted of me, myself and Iโ€ฆ

Since chemo finished 2.5 years ago, I havenโ€™t had one single coldโ€ฆ

I havenโ€™t taken any medication

And I donโ€™t take supplements either ( only B12 bcs I eat a plant based diet)My health gets better and better each dayโ€ฆ

I believe we all have an incredible power within usโ€ฆ

All the time you keep looking for answers on the outsideโ€ฆ

You are distraction yourself from your inner powerโ€ฆ

If you are looking to heal yourself, this is my 2 cents on it:

Stop looking on the outside, spend time finding the answers within you.