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How I created a happy marriage…

Coming from a chauvinist culture I grew up in an environment where I saw men behaving in different ways than women 

Like cheating was ok for men whilst women had to just put up with it

I saw girls my age putting up with it, cousins older than me putting up with it and aunties putting up with it

As I observed all of it, I DECIDED 

yes I DECIDED that I wasn’t going to settle for any relationship 

I wasn’t going to be treated with disrespect 

I wasn’t going to hope and wish that my relationship was going to be ok

I made a DECISION that I was going to marry for love

And that my husband was going to adore me and treat me with respect 

and HE DOES

I had so many opportunities to settle for a relationship that would make my parents happy 

or my extended family happy

or even the society around me happy

But I CAREFULLY CHOSE WHAT I WANTED

Most people are scared to choose what they want

because deep down they are not sure of themselves

therefore they don’t know what they want

they are being guided by fear and by what others want

when you are disconnected from who you are 

and you are being guided by fear

It is difficult to create what you truly want

When you connect to yourself, you understand who you are,

you start creating exactly what you want

and You let go of the need of approval that is led by fear.

If that is where you are at

wanting to connect to who you truly are

So you can create a life that you want to live

Sign up to THE SELF LOVE DISCOVERY

where you will learn how to LOVE YOURSELF

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