Coming from a chauvinist culture I grew up in an environment where I saw men behaving in different ways than women
Like cheating was ok for men whilst women had to just put up with it
I saw girls my age putting up with it, cousins older than me putting up with it and aunties putting up with it
As I observed all of it, I DECIDED
yes I DECIDED that I wasn’t going to settle for any relationship
I wasn’t going to be treated with disrespect
I wasn’t going to hope and wish that my relationship was going to be ok
I made a DECISION that I was going to marry for love
And that my husband was going to adore me and treat me with respect
and HE DOES
I had so many opportunities to settle for a relationship that would make my parents happy
or my extended family happy
or even the society around me happy
But I CAREFULLY CHOSE WHAT I WANTED
Most people are scared to choose what they want
because deep down they are not sure of themselves
therefore they don’t know what they want
they are being guided by fear and by what others want
when you are disconnected from who you are
and you are being guided by fear
It is difficult to create what you truly want
When you connect to yourself, you understand who you are,
you start creating exactly what you want
and You let go of the need of approval that is led by fear.
If that is where you are at
wanting to connect to who you truly are
So you can create a life that you want to live
Sign up to THE SELF LOVE DISCOVERY
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