𝙒𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙄 𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙛𝙤𝙘𝙪𝙨 𝙤𝙣 𝙢𝙮𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛, 𝙢𝙮 𝙧𝙚𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙥 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙢𝙮 𝙝𝙪𝙨𝙗𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙜𝙤𝙩 𝙢𝙪𝙘𝙝 𝙗𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧…

𝙒𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙛𝙤𝙘𝙪𝙨 𝙤𝙣 𝙝𝙞𝙢, 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙧𝙚𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙥 𝙜𝙤𝙩 𝙗𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧….

Nick and I have been together for 18 years…

He is my jackpot…

My lottery ticket…

The best thing that has ever happened in my life…

We met in a hostel in Budapest and our story is romantic…

It was love at first sight…

But we had our moments….

If you add 2 small children in the mix, you know what I am talking about…

It leaves you without much to give to each other….

Especially because we always lived away from family…

After my cancer diagnosis, Nick had to look after me, the kids, his business and everything…

But at the end of it all, it was hard on him after 7.5 months of having to be everything to everyone…

But truth is I didn’t have much to give back to him as my treatment had just finished….

And I was just about to keep my head above the water…

So I kept focusing on my healing…

And he started to focus on himself…

The more we focused on ourselves separately, the stronger we got together…

I found that the ripple effect of focusing on myself was huge in all areas of my life…

I believe that you need to become the change you want to see in people and in the world.

As Mahatma Ghandi would say:

“Be the change that you wish to see in the world” – Mahatma Ghandi.

You need to love yourself first before you allow yourself to be loved…

As Nick and I learned how to love ourselves for real, we became more fulfilled within ourselves and consequently happier together…

I became super passionate about helping people to heal themselves because I see the power in each and everyone of us when we are committed to changing…

And healing ourselves…